
I'm convinced my friend is right.
He says, "People don't want counsel; they want confirmation." The longer I'm around and the more I counsel people, the more I believe the above statement is accurate. People generally want someone to agree with what they already think. They want someone to confirm their decision(s).
They want people to tell them what they want to hear. And they virtually never listen to the bible when it disagrees with their plan or view. I am amazed by the number of folks who fake interest in biblical counsel
when they are going to do what they want anyway! Sadly, this is common among those who are alledgedly mature in the faith.
Proverbs 1:7: The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.